If You Still Recognize Me
Written by Cynthia So
Published by HarperCollins Publishers
This summer, Elsie is finally going to confess her feelings to her longtime—and long-distance—crush. Ada’s fanfics are to die for, and she just gets Elsie like no one else. That is, until Joan, Elsie’s childhood best friend, literally walks back into her life and slots in like she never left. Like she never moved away to Hong Kong and never ignored Elsie’s dozens of emails and letters.
Then Ada mentions her grandmother’s own long-lost pen pal (and maybe love?), a woman who once lived only a train ride away from Elsie’s Oxford home, and Elsie gets the idea for the perfect grand gesture. But as her plan to reunite the two older women ignites a summer of repairing broken bonds, Elsie starts to wonder if she, too, can recover the things she’s lost…
With a beautifully earnest voice and a dash of fandom, this wistful and delightful novel is a love letter to queer coming-of-age, finding community, and finding yourself.
Primary ISBN: 9780063283268
Publication Date: May 2023
Available As: Hardcover
Young Adult, Age 14 or older
Community Represented: Unspecified (Asian)
Themes: Cross-Group Dating, Cross-Group Friendship, Format: Audiobook, Genre: Romance, LGBTQIA+, Own Voices/Lived Experience
Setting: England (Oxford)
Character's Place in the Immigration Journey: Unspecified
Book Creator(s) Connection to the Community Represented: Own Voices/Lived Experience
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