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“Aching, beautiful, full of lyric and full of love, I Want You to Know has found a way to explain war and diaspora to young readers with simultaneous clarity and gentleness, and enduring hope.”

– Safia Elhillo, author of Bright Red Fruit and Home Is Not A Country

“Oh! This exquisite book! With perfectly paced elegant words, and brilliantly appealing art, it is a book for all who have been separated from lands they called home. It’s for children and grandparents and parents and teachers, honoring ancestors, stories, memory, the difficulty of exile, the power of remembering and passing on tradition and beauty. War is never what anyone was born for. I love it so much and am hereby ordering ten!”

– Naomi Shihab Nye, author of Habibi

I Want You to Know

Written by Mona Damluji
Illustrated by Ishtar Bäcklund Dakhil
Published by Triangle Square

This poem with vibrant and colorful illustrations opens a conversation with young readers about family bonds and the lasting impacts of war.

I want you to know that you are still of the place
That our ancestors have known.
The place that they called home.

How do we speak with our children about wars that took place where generations of our ancestors once called home? How can we explain that those wars continue to reverberate in our lives, many years or even decades after the combat has ended? And why is it so difficult, complicated, and even painful to dream of our return? I Want You to Know is a poem of possibility, of legacy, and of hope.

Damluji originally wrote a version of this poem for her daughter on the morning of the 20-year anniversary of the 2003 U.S. invasion of Iraq, a place where generations of Damluji’s family had lived, loved, and cared for one another until it was no longer safe to stay. Her daughter has heard many family stories about life in Iraq, but there have also been many silences. I Want You to Know opens a conversation that helps to fill that void.

Primary ISBN: 9781644214411
Publication Date: March 2025
Available As: Hardcover, eBook
Picture Book, Age 04 or older

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Character's Place in the Immigration Journey: Refugee, 1st Generation

Book Creator(s) Connection to the Community Represented: Own Voices/Lived Experience

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